It’s has been quite awhile since I’ve written anything, but I feel like I have all kinds of things swirling around in my head. I think I might make a list first, before I start . . .

Life = good times, not so good times, regrets, figuring out how to be in the present but still have some pertinent memories of the past that relate to the present without getting bogged down.

Time = where does it go? do I use it wisely? will I ever not feel guilty about relaxing and letting time “slip away” ?

Relationships = I have learned so much about relationships from my kids and my extra daughter. I understand now that a few minutes here and there is ok. You don’t have to spend hours and hours together to stay close. Sharing a quick thought or picture or memory is enough for the connection to stay strong. I wish I had done a better job staying connected with my friends. Christmas cards once a year just don’t do much for staying connected. Of course, this generation can keep in touch online which is a big bonus that we never had. I think most everyone goes through some period of life where you get into different circles of friends and maybe get out of touch because of distance or commonality of the moment.